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WORD WARRIOR FELL OFF THE WAGON

Woman's best friend and they don't spread rumors!Lola Falana she may be small but she's alphaSofie Horowitz - she may be almost toothless but she's full of love and energy!Ramu Gupta - the face speaks for itself.I should take my cues from him. Just chill.

Well, I have almost fallen off, I’m hanging on by a send button and my trusty assistant Allison cleaning up the typos.

See, well, the long and short of it, short for me as I have a train to catch – someone did something really awful, underhanded, destructive and mean to our whole family.

Lucy for the most part, but Glenn and I are certainly affected.

It was someone we thought of as a friend, a good friend, someone at Lucy’s school.

I have been stewing like a pot roast for a week, while I was trying to get to the bottom of it.

If ever I wanted to Word Warrior it’s now.

But I didn’t. I guess I feel like a drunk and a slip up, you can climb back on the wagon the next day.

In this case the damage has been done by the other party, so a few well-pointed words from me can’t make it worse.

My e-mail missal will only make me feel better.

So, yesterday on the train to Boston when I finished writing my blog about Lucy, I was going to fire one off.

But, the battery on my laptop was used up.

I took this as sign from the universe to shut up, read my Tatler and drop it.

But you know me, I had the trusty Blackberry and I have written three thousand word blogs from my BB, what’s one note telling someone how you can’t mess with my kid and hurt her?
My justification for falling off the word warrior wagon was someone did something (through words and rumors) to really hurt Lucy and since I was the one who made up my word warrior rule, I could certainly pencil in an exception clause, when my kids are involved all bets are off.

I wrote the email and sent it to Glenn, and then my train arrived. I read it to Taylor, we went to dinner.

I decided to sleep on it.

I’m still on the fence.

I have not fallen off the wagon; I’m on the fence.

I’m staying on the fence for the next forty-eight hours, I think.

Perhaps I will not send it and climb back on the wagon.

What do you guys think?

I’m posting photos of the dogs as it’s the peaceful thing to do and they are man’s best friend and you can’t word warrior them, only deprive them of treats.

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  • Maureen Lippe

    Send it! When it’s your kids you go for the throat. But, just send to the people involved. We don’t need to know all the gory details. Love ya more. Maureen

  • http://Blitzerfamily@yahoo.com Lynnda Blitzer

    Okay, haven’t been able to reach you today…I have been thinking…and if someone did something to hurt my child, I would tear their throat out! So I guess that I fall into the “send it” camp. With full knowledge that it may escalate and become a major part and focus of the next days or maybe even weeks. I have found that face to face confrontation works the best…but have your armor on and you script ready and rehearsed and rolled played if you can…because I dont know about you but when I am upset, and or angry and I am faced with confrontation I sometimes resort to foul language, which I always feel bad about later….not that i had the confrontation but that i got so emotional that i said how i truly felt about the person with out the censor edit! Good luck! And if we are ever in NY together and we see her let me know and I will stick my foot out and trip the bitch!

  • Shrimani

    Dear Tracey,
    I know what it feels like to want to RIP, to BEAT to KILL even – I am a Scorpio with Mars in the first house after all but I think you need to consider Lucy – as I imagine you are – and how you want to model behavior for her and how you want her to move through this crisis.

    I applaud and support your sleeping on it and thinking it over. There must be something more productive than striking out at this thoughtless loser – and you will find it. Stay on the upside and don’t let someone else, however infuriating, take you out of being the intelligent, powerful and grown woman that you are.

  • Pace

    Tracey, I have to go with Shrimani. I have to sleep on a lot of messages, and I have a rule not to hit send after 11 p.m. I think the proverbial high road is the way to go, though if someone hurt Robin, I’d probably run them down. But that’s a different outlet for anger. I also agree such things, if pursued, are perhaps not best delivered in writing. But, face-to-face can escalate to something ugly and hard to reverse. At least you have the satisfaction of sharing the email, albeit with family members.
    You want the person not to do this again. So, modeling more mature, reasoned, thoughtful and courteous behavior sets the right tone. Now, if it happens again, I’d get a Hummer and gun it when the b– is crossing the street. .

  • Pace

    P.S. Love the dogs! How are they handling the snow?

  • fred gowland

    I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IN THE HELL HAPPENED….F

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